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With the rocky economy it can be difficult at times to feel grateful instead of grumbling about what isn’t right with the world. However, by taking time to be grateful even during difficult times and at challenging moments, exceptional personal growth can take place. I read an excellent article by Jack Canfield, author of the Chicken Soup for the Soul, on Gratitude and Appreciation. You can read the full article here:

http://jackcanfield.com/files/newsletter_archive/112008.htm

I began to reflect on moments that I have made a conscious effort to focus on gratitude and appreciation. A few weeks ago I experienced a very challenging moment when I discovered that one of my car tires was very flat. This was particularly inconvenient as I was 40 miles from home. As I was given the news by a very sweet woman in a restaurant where I was having lunch, I realized that I had a choice about how I was going to react to my flat tire. I could have certainly become “justifiably” upset, or I could calmly face the situation and focus on the blessings around me at that moment. The blessings I chose to focus on included the fact that I was not alone as I decided what to do. My aunt and cousin were with me and offered tremendous support. It was a brilliantly sunny day and neither pouring rain or snowing. I did have a spare tire in my trunk if I needed it, and calling AAA was always an option.

As I focused on these blessings I remained very calm and at ease. The flat tire no longer seemed to be such a big deal. With a few stops along the way at gasoline station air pumps, I made it safely home, and found a tire service station that could work on my car right way. (It was even a Sunday!). While I waited for my car I read a wonderful book and actually enjoyed the extra time to relax. Once my tire situation was evaluated I was informed that I actually needed two new tires. Fortunately, I was later told by a family member that I had received a great deal on the tires!

So as you go throughout your holiday season look for people, circumstances and events to appreciate. The more you appreciate the more grateful you will feel and the more beautiful life will become. You can have a lovely holiday season despite what they may be saying on the news!

Deborah Barnett, Ph.D.

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Here in America we are celebrating Thanksgiving. Or iginally, back in 1789, President George Washington proclaimed this to be a public day of thanksgiving and prayer. Today, many people think of the holiday as a day to gather with friends and family, eat turkey, and give thanks for the blessings in their lives.

Giving thanks may seem like a “good” and “nice” thing to do. However, the benefits of giving thanks and expressing gratitude have profound ripple effects. Marci Shimoff, author of Happy for No Reason: 7 Steps to Being Happy from the Inside Out www.happyfornoreason.com, interviewed 100 unconditionally happy people as a part of her research for this book. She found that unconditionally happy people have happiness habits that they practice. One of these happiness habits is to Focus on Gratitude. Marci explains that if you want to learn a new skill or habit, a great way to do this is to model someone who already practices this skill or habit. So, if happiness is something that you would like to attract more of into your life, cultivating gratitude is a good step toward doing this.

A fun exercise which utilizes giving thanks and may increase your happiness is the exercise of giving thanks in advance. To do this exercise, simply think about what you would like to attract into your life. Imagine and feel for a few moments what it would feel like if these events/circumstances were already in your life. After contemplating this for a few minutes, start to give thanks for these events/circumstances as if had manifested. Some example statements might be, “Thank you for my healthy body. . . I am so grateful for the fun job and clients that I have. . . I am so thankful for the safe and comfortable home that I live in.” It is a fun exercise and really can get the “gratitude juices” flowing through your body.

I am a big fan of expressing gratitude and I make it one of my daily practices. This year I am more appreciative of the Thanksgiving holiday than I have ever been before. For the coming year I’m going to focus on having the feeling of Thanksgiving present in my life all year long. . . . but I think I’ll skip eating turkey everyday.

Deborah Barnett, Ph.D.

www.ManifestingWellBeing.com

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